The third characteristic of anisthita bhakti is vyudha-vikalpa, indecisiveness. We become indecisive when we are trying to find the best way to surrender, yet remain under the sway of our material attachments. We search continuously for a more comfortable way to surrender—a way that still allows us to fulfill our material desires. We remain indecisive, and in the end do nothing for Krishna.
(LFD, Vol2, Being Careful to Avoid Anisthita-bhakti, Pg 54, 2nd paragraph)