If you see two advanced Vaishnavas seemingly opposed to one another, consider it leela; don’t become an aparadhi by taking one side over another. And if both are aparadhis and are offending one another by their behavior, then it is still best not to get involved. Simply taking sides and even starting a defensive movement is not the way to resolve problems. We do not solve problems by numbers or by creating a vox populi. Rather, we should resolve problems from the spiritual platform. That is, we should seek Krishna conscious solutions. Therefore we should look for people who have the most Krishna conscious influence on all parties and place the dispute in their hands.
LFD Vol 2 pg 43, last paragraph