The mentality of Vaisnavas is to always accept the good—not be like the fly that always goes only to the sore. Have you ever tried to keep flies away from nasty places? You cannot keep them away. You may have a sore or cut, and a fly comes directly to it, and keeps coming back even though you try to swat it away. This is the same thing as the “fault-finding mentality.” You might try to do something to divert a person’s consciousness from looking for fault, but the faultfinder cannot control himself.
(Caitanya Caritamrita Lectures Book, Adi Lila: 8.62 Kiev—May2, 2000, Pg 101)