Those who are counselors or Nama Hatta leaders have to show a good example for others. That example was that there was no unrestricted association between the sexes. Even amongst those who are householders, the householder man would not even take care of women. The wife of the householder man would take care of the women. Or maybe they would do it together, sometimes under certain circumstances. But even a householder man would not take care of a woman alone.
Taking Care of Devotees, Pg 94, 2nd Paragraph