Haridäsa Pandita always saw others as having no faults. How did he do this? He engaged his heart and soul only in satisfying the Vaisnavas. He was thinking, “I have such a wonderful opportunity to serve Vaisnavas since I am surrounded by them.” He was always looking for different ways to render service, as opposed to always trying to find different ways to get others to serve him, which is completely the opposite mentality of a Vaisnava.
Caitanya Caritamrita Lectures Book, Adi Lila: 8.62 Kiev—May2, 2000, Pg 104