We should absorb ourselves in Krishna-katha and thus free ourselves from material conciousness and at the same time, we should live simply, not acquiring more than we need. These two items are the only way by which we can lose our taste for matter and develop our taste for spirit. Although in the householder life we become attached to family and friends, our real object of affection is Krishna. If we do not understand that , we will look for relationships in the material world and be disappointed.
LFD Vol 1, Spiritual Life of Grhasthas, Pg 379, 2nd Paragraph