The spirit of renunciation means to give up the enjoying spirit. Without giving up the enjoying spirit, it is not possible to be renounced. We may renounce all family life without understanding the real spirit of renunciation. We may think, “Yes, I am renouncing so that I can experience enjoyment.” However, if we cannot understand real enjoyment, our renunciation will be incomplete.
Caitanya Caritamrita Lectures Book, Madhya Lila, Pg 296