The Vaishnava method of having a relationship means that you serve somebody. If you serve them, then you find that by serving them, then they reciprocate. That is our Vaishnava standard. If you actually want to get the attention of somebody, the way you can get his attention is by serving him. And if you really want attention, you serve him without any expectation of something in return, because that is the foundation of love.
June 12, 2005, Kiev