Devotees help each other by seeing the good qualities in each other. By seeing the good qualities in each other, we can fan and encourage them so that they will feel sheltered. And by feeling sheltered, they will automatically want to come up to a higher standard and improve. These are Vaisnava relationships.
TCD, Pg 78, 4th Paragraphh
If one is a preacher, then he has to think that "if somebody needs to develop good qualities and I am a preacher, then I am partially responsible if that person doesn't have them.'' How is he going to improve unless he has the association of somebody who can help him and who cares about him?
Taking Care of Devotees, Pg 78, 3rd Paragraph
A leader who can help others is somebody who can always see the good in others, because if you can't see the good in others, how can you help them?
Taking Care of Devotees, Pg 78, 3rd Paragraph
If we really want to effectively associate with others, we really have to learn how to develop the ability to see the good qualities in others. If we really want to develop the ability to see the good qualities in others, we really have to look within our own hearts to see the anarthas that are obstructing us and preventing us from seeing.
Taking Care of Devotees, Pg 76, Last Paragraph
The most important relationships are the relationships that the devotees who have the responsibilities to take care of other devotees have with each other.
Taking Care of Devotees, Pg 75, Last Paragraph
We may think, ''Oh, there is only one person who may be a source of inspiration for me.'' But that means we are far away, because we can't see that there are many other persons also assisting him in fulfilling a similar function. There are many others who are assisting and giving us inspiration, who are giving us care. We are meant to have relationships with them also. But if all we see is just one person, that means we are still very far from him.
Taking Care of Devotees, Pg 73, Last Paragraph
Taking сare of Krishna's devotees is not something that we сan simply create an image of and expect to inspire everybody to take part in. Everybody has to feel some inspiration: ''Yes! I am being taken сare of also.''
Taking Care of Devotees, Pg 73, 1st Paragraph
He who is equipoised both in happiness and distress is said to be in transcendental consciousness. This is how Krishna takes care of us when we devote all of our energy for satisfying Him.
Taking Care of Devotees, Pg 70, 4th Paragraph
If we can actually accept chastisement, our heart can become purified. And to the degree that our hearts become purified, then we can also begin to manifest loving relationships.
Taking Care of Devotees, Pg 68, 4th Paragraph
The devotee should feel, ''If something happens to me, my counselor will reach out to me because they care about me.'' This kind of friendly relationship is needed by the devotees in Krishna consciousness.
Taking Care of Devotees, Pg 66, 3rd Paragraph